Maybe if I was a Cougar, I would be flattered and yes, interested. But, there is no interest there for me. I always go and read the guy's profile, usually there is nothing there to pique my interest. Since I have no desire or interest in younger men, I simply can't see any of these posts or e-mails as serious considerations...simply eludes me.
I had a friend, a guy who is younger than I am, tell me that I am a cougar of sorts...okay, what does that mean? While I have men that are friends that are younger than I am, I have no sexual attraction to these young men. These younger men are what I consider a friend without sexual benefits. They are merely friends...period, nothing else.
Perhaps in group sex I would consider playing with a younger guy...I have played with younger guys in group sex piles...but other than a group grope, I have no desire to "get together" one-on-one, in a sexual context with ANY of these guys. I have been with a couple of younger men, but there wasn't an attraction or need to be with that young man other than the immediate purpose it served...in other words, if the young man seeks my company in the capacity of my "hobby" I'll see him, fuck him...nothing more than the interest provided by his wallet. I certainly don't seek out these younger men, they seek me. I simply accommodate as the situation merits..